Are Religious Men Bad In Bed?
Are you freaked out by the idea of dating an SCD—you know, a Super-Christian Dude? Have you avoided men with online profiles touting their “love of the Lord”? Are you allergic to bros in WWJD (What Would Jesus Do) bracelets?
There are three myths associated with dating ‘Super Christian Dude’.
1. Christian guys are boring (and unattractive).
Every once in and a while I’ll hear a woman say she’d never date a Christian. In turn, I’ll say to them, “So if Tim Tebow or Russell Wilson walked up to you right now and asked you out on a date, you would reject them flat-out because of their Christian faith?” The answer is always, “Of course not.” This gender though!!! In other words, if he were a millionaire, magazine-cover-worthy, pro football player, then, yeah, she would totally date him, and the Christian thing wouldn’t really be that big of a deal.
2. The Bible makes all Christian guys jerks.
Christianity is the largest religion in the world and it would be silly to group them together into a box labeled “Undatable.”. Women say are SCD’s are manipulative and had used Christianity as a way to control women and wouldn’t consider any other opinions as being valid.
3. If you marry a Christian guy, kiss a fulfilling sex life goodbye
It’s no secret that Christianity preaches that sex should be reserved for marriage alone and that most of the rest of the population begs to differ. In my experience, the sex issue is by far the most difficult hurdle for non-Christian women when they consider whether they’d date a Christian.
I do not believe God would have created men and women with sexual organs that can give them pleasure if they were simply supposed to be used for procreation.
Dating nowadays is hard. There are endless underhand tactics unspoken rules and too many options. Choose your struggle!
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