By Signs Your Partner Is Not Sexually Attracted To You
It’s normal for physical attraction and desires to wax and wane over the course of any long-term relationship or marriage. So in and of itself, a dry spell in the bedroom is neither a big deal nor something you should necessarily worry about.
The elephant in the room is when your boyfriend or husband no longer wants to have sex with you. Give this immediate attention if you discover such behavior.
- He has difficulty getting erections on a regular basis
This is one of the most obvious indicators that something’s amiss in your love life. Assuming that he’s healthy and in a generally good mood, there’s no reason he shouldn’t be able to get an erection regularly.
- He chooses masturbation over sex with you more often
There’s nothing wrong with enjoying some good old-fashioned self-love, but when you know for a fact that he’s rejecting your advances in favor of masturbation, there’s a problem.
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- Everything you do seems to upset him
When someone is really into you on a physical level, they will overlook all the little annoying quirks you have.
When someone stops being attracted to you, all those little quirks become increasingly annoying, and they may even make your formerly chill significant other get snippy with you.
- He only wants to be sexual with you when he’s been drinking
If it’s gotten to the point that he feels like he needs beer goggles in order to be into you, his interest is long gone.
5. The way he talks to you sounds more like the way a guy would talk to his sister, roommate, or guy friend.
When he begins to treat you like a roommate rather than like a wife or girlfriend, you should be concerned. This is often a sign that he’s stopped viewing you as a sexual being.
6. Your body underwent major changes, and he’s made note of it.
Though it’s not what anyone wants to hear, men are visual creatures. If you gained significant weight and he’s told you he’s noticed, there may be a chance that your boyfriend or husband might not find you as attractive as he did when you first got together.
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