Why Women Cheat

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Why Women Cheat

There are many reasons for infidelity but experts say that a large majority of the time, motivations differ by gender, with men searching for more sex or attention and women looking to fill an emotional void.

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Here are the reasons why women cheat.


They say revenge is a dish best served cold. These women either with proof of their man cheating or the false suspicion of him cheating they go out to revenge on another man or men. But girl, do not stoop too low. Just Cut him off!

Deceptive Friends

Many women have misleading female friends who are quick to give wrong advice that destroys marriages. Those misleading are either bitter and single or are destroying their own marriages and speak from a place of pain or the desire to make you unfaithful so that they feel OK that you are cheating just like them. These misleading female friends will tell you “Have fun”, “Enjoy a better penis”, “YOLO” they will even buy you condoms but when your marriage fails, they will mock you or leave. Choose your friends wisely.


When a woman was sexually abused in the past or she actually cheated in the past, she can foolishly numb the pain by having more casual sex out of guilt or feelings of worthlessness. Girl, don’t lose and hurt yourself on account of your past.

They Crave Intimacy

Women tend to feel valued and connected to a significant other more through non-sexual, emotional interplay (talking, having fun together, being thoughtful, building a home and social life together, etc.) than sexual activity. Whether the affair is physical or emotional in nature, a woman may cheat because they crave conversation, empathy, respect, devotion, adoration, support, or some other connection that’s lacking in their current relationship. When they’re not feeling that type of connection from their primary partner, they may seek it elsewhere.

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Professional Success

It is so unfortunate that some women think to succeed in life they have to sleep around with the boss or a man in power; to them, the end justifies the means. Once her husband finds out it shatters him. He looks at her differently, he wants nothing to do with her success. Lady, success is only sweet when you have earned it honorably. There are so many ways you can make it in life with your character intact.


It is sad that the millennials both genders have welcomed alcohol in all their meals. More women are drinking than ever before, some women have been caught up in the fun of clubbing, partying, and binge drinking. They can’t handle the alcohol and so though married or taken, they end up waking up in bed with another man. Remember the best kind of fun is sober fun darling.

The Tempting Ex

A number of women keep in touch with their ex and some hide this from their partner. Slowly, they get comfortable with the ex, they miss the good old days, have sex then she wonders why did she go back to the mess she was saved from? Just cut them off.

Women tend to have an emotional connection with their lovers and are more likely to have an affair because of loneliness. Men are more likely to cite sexual motivations for infidelity and are less likely to fall in love with an extramarital partner

Felicity Gitonga
Felicity Gitonga is the founder of Africa Business News. abn, freelance writer, journalist, and author with a passion for telling stories.

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  1. You see why we call them daughters of jezebel 🤣🤣

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