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Why You should NOT Rush A Relationship

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Why You should NOT Rush A Relationship

Our generation, Ooops! probably every generation puts too much emphasis on sex. I understand sex is a big part of any successful relationship.

But the problem we’re facing isn’t that we’re having too much sex in relationships. We’re having so much sex before we’re in a relationship that the relationship itself doesn’t materialize.

But it isn’t just rushing into sex that kills the chances of creating real love. It’s rushing into love that stops you from creating real love. It’s allowing yourself to fall too quickly.

It’s allowing your mind wander to its brightest and most romantic corners. It’s imagining things about a person that probably aren’t even true.

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Falling in love for some of us is too easy. We are so hell-bent on finding love that we start labeling anything that closely resembles love as love itself.

I do believe that we should love as much and as often as possible, but we do need to practice some restraint.

This for the good of the relationship, for your future together, and for your own sanity. Taking things too quickly and rushing into love usually doesn’t end well. Which is a shame.

A lot of the time true love is just around the corner, but because we are so keen to rush things, we trip and fall before we ever make it that far.

It is believed that people who get married between 28 and 32 have less chance for divorce. Perhaps, it’s because men and women in their late 20s and early 30s are both emotionally and financially mature enough to get married. Also, the less the age gap is the better it is for marriage.

If you want a serious relationship, then your best pool is defiantly the late 20’s to mid 30’s. As you grow older your pool will only become shorter and shorter from marriage.

I know many men think the pool will grow bigger, but the thing is “your pool isn’t who you want to date rather who wants to date you”.

Women who are closer to your age are probably a lot more likely to be in a similar stage of life as you

Felicity Gitonga

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  1. On point.

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