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Biggest Mistake Women Make In A Relationship.

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No good relationship was ever built on the grounds of manipulation. Photo Courtesy

Biggest Mistake Women Make In A Relationship.

Women make a lot of mistakes in relationships and end up regretting them. The topmost among them is assuming they are official before given the honours.

Since I ate chocolate today and being in a good mood, I will tell you for free that the first thing you should do is to relax and go with the flow, and hope for the best.

For some, making it official is a big deal. For others, though, it’s far easier to just slip into things. If you spend a lot of time around each other, enjoy each other’s company, and have good sex, then naturally, things will eventually get more serious.

The truth of the matter is that no man is going to ever willingly make it official and commit to a girl unless he is absolutely sure of it.

No good relationship was ever built on the grounds of manipulation. Photo Courtesy

Second to the topmost is women put so much pressure on relationships. Hate me or love me, men are the simplest creatures you will ever meet.

Men love drama-free women. By drama-free I mean the one who just goes with the flow and doesn’t put so much pressure on the relationship.

So, stop being over-dramatic and paranoid that he is not into you just because he likes another girl’s Instagram pictures or other ladies.

Do not make anything into something! If he is really into you, he will not have to ever put a doubt in your mind and the budding relationship will eventually flourish into a prosperous one.

Get clear on what you want.  Give him space to step up and be that man without manipulating, prodding, hinting, guilting, or nagging him to be that man.  He will either step into that role or he won’t. No good relationship was ever built on the grounds of manipulation.

Felicity Gitonga

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