Avoid Married Men Like The Plague!
There are no positive reasons for dating a married man. Even the good reasons don’t stand the test of time and turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas’ clothing.
He’ll make you feel you’re the most beautiful woman in the world, you’ll believe everything he says, imagine a future together, and more than likely fall completely in love. But he’ll never leave his wife.
These are reasons why you shouldn’t date a married man.
He won’t commit to a future with you.
Don’t confuse his loving the way you make him feel with his loving you and making a commitment to you. This may sound like a commitment to a future with you. It’s not.
Cheating on his wife tells you how he deals with situations he doesn’t like.
You are evidence of the fact that he avoids dealing with unpleasant situations head-on. This means that he’s likely to resort to some devious behavior with you if the two of you encounter relationship problems.
Hiding is exhausting.
Having to keep your relationship a secret can attack your self-esteem and cause you to miss out on one of the wonderful aspects of a relationship. Walking together freely and radiantly through the world can fill you with the glow of being with someone who is proud to be with you.
Can you love someone who is disrespectful to his wife?
The existence of your relationship with a married man tells you how little he respects his wife by lying to her instead of being a man and telling her he wants out.
Time is too precious to waste.
Ever notice how quickly the years go as you get older? Because it’s convenient and comfortable, a relationship with a married man can go on for a long time and before you know it, eat up the precious time you might have had in a healthy relationship with a chance of flourishing.
So in the future think twice about dating the most ‘exciting’ man in the room. And keep your wits about you!