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Never stop being you

These are some of the things a woman should never do for a man/boyfriend.

Change your appearance.

If your significant other is a decent human being, they won’t ever force you to alter the way you look for their benefit. They should love you for you, and all of you. If your weight, hair, or style really bothers him, he’s clearly not with you for the right reasons. Any physical changes you make should be made because you want them, not for attention or for someone else. It is perfectly natural for a woman to want to look nice for the man she loves. But if your man pressures you to change your look drastically, you don’t need him.

Give him expensive presents all the time

It is best to give each other gifts that are equal in value. Giving expensive presents to your loved one, especially when he cannot allow himself to return the favor, can make him feel awkward and bad about himself. Moreover, if you are dealing with an unscrupulous man, he can just use your love to get what he wants.

Never stop being you

Give up your personal life and career

Absolutely no one should get in the way of your goals. It is your life, after all, and nobody else will regret leaving any dreams behind more than you. The decision to pass on a job opportunity or put an idea on hold might seem best at the moment, but the future is never guaranteed. Your partner should support your endeavors, and if he’s willing to come along for the ride, that’s just a bonus. Also, the more varied your life outside your family is, the more your spouse will appreciate you. But always remember: extremes are dangerous.

Wait for his approval.

A strong woman plays by her rules and doesn’t sit around for instructions. You should be assertive and go forward with your own decisions rather than seek validation from someone else. You’re grown enough to know what’s best for you.

Be a shoulder for him to cry on

Unlike women, men don’t fall in love with girls feeling sorry for them. Remember that just because you’re always there for him emotionally and spiritually doesn’t mean that your relationship is deep and fulfilling.

A wise woman supports and inspires her husband to new achievements. And this really is one of the secrets of a happy relationship.

Felicity Gitonga

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